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Tools for better relationships.

Science-backed helpers for friendship, social capacity, and genuine connection — all running locally in your browser.

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Relationship Question Router

Find the right next step in 60 seconds: check-in, repair, boundary, reassurance, pause, or hard conversation.

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Dunbar Calculator

An editorial planning estimate of friendship circles.

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Relationship Safety Check

Check whether a conversation tool fits or whether safety, support, and distance need to come first.

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Birthday Reminder Calendar

Check your birthday list and download an .ics file.

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Mental Load Mapper

Make invisible work visible and translate resentment into ownership, standards, and a weekly check-in.

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Relationship Map Maker

Map your social relationships in three circles – privately and without signup.

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Relationship Check-In Builder

Build a calm 10, 20, or 45 minute check-in agenda for a partner, friend, or family member.

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Hard Conversation Planner

Plan the opening line, sequence, questions, boundary, and timeout for a hard conversation.

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Repair Script Builder

Build a calm repair script after sharp words, withdrawal, broken promises, or damaged trust.

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Boundary Script Builder

Turn a boundary into your own behavior, not control, threat, or endless debate.

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Stay-or-Go Decision Map

Sort safety, effort, evidence, values, and next steps without deciding from fear or hope alone.

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Friendship Check-Up

A 12-question reflection that surfaces which of your friendships are quietly cooling — without judgement.

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Reconnect Message Generator

A message script that doesn't sound forced — pick the situation, pick the tone, get three usable opening lines.

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Aron's 36 Questions

Endearist’s adaptation of Aron's conversation exercise: read all 36 questions or use the guided view.

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Relationship Health Quiz

15 questions to reflect on your relationships — an editorial self-check, not clinically or scientifically validated.

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Personal CRM TCO Calculator

Calculate your real 3-year cost across Clay, Monica, Dex, Cloze, and folk, next to Endearist's proposed Pro Lifetime price — see the number that doesn't fit on the marketing page.

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Contact Priorities Matrix

A 2×2 grid (Important × Energy-Giving) for placing your 15 closest people — the matrix that argues with the "obligation" instinct.

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Friendship Languages Quiz

Adapted from Chapman's 5 Love Languages — for friendships. Discover whether you express care through quality time, words, gifts, acts of service, or physical presence.

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Birthday Message Generator

Three custom birthday message variants — pick the relationship, pick the tone, get something better than "Happy Birthday 🎉🎉🎉".

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Apology Message Generator

A research-backed apology — name the harm, take ownership, ask for repair, no excuses. Three variants generated from your situation.

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Friendship Time Budget Calculator

Explore an example allocation of your friendship time.

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Long-Distance Friendship Plan

A 12-month plan for one long-distance friendship — exportable as .ics.

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Holiday Card List Manager

Build your holiday card list once — export Avery 5160 labels, a printable address list, or a mail-merge CSV.

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Contact Deduplicator

Paste a vCard, CSV, or Google Takeout export — find duplicates, merge them, download clean contacts. Entirely in your browser.

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Color Personality Test

12 questions, your dominant color — and the translation across all four color models (Jung, True Colors, Hartman, Birkman).

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16-Type Personality Test

32 questions, your four-letter type — and the translation into True Colors, Insights, and Hartman.

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Type A/B Personality Test

12 questions, your place on the A↔B spectrum — plus where Type C and D fit.

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Big Five Personality Test

20 questions (Mini-IPIP), five dimensions — Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness, Neuroticism.

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DISC Personality Test

12 questions, your DISC style (D/I/S/C) — and the translation into the 4-color wheel.

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How Often to Text a Friend Calculator

How often should you actually text each friend? Find your cadence.

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Friendship Anniversary Calculator

How long have you been friends?

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How Good of a Friend Am I? Quiz

15 questions across 5 dimensions — find out how you really show up as a friend.

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Is My Friendship Toxic? A Reflective Quiz

15 calm questions to reflect on a friendship — no verdict, just an honest self-check.

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Attachment Style Test

Secure, anxious, avoidant — or both?

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Time Left With Parents Calculator

One number that changes everything.

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Sympathy Message Helper

The right words when words are hard.

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Best Friend Paragraph Generator

A paragraph for your best friend — heartfelt, funny, or short — ready in seconds.

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What Kind of Friend Am I? Quiz

15 questions across 4 dimensions — find your friend type: Initiator, Deep Diver, Celebrator, Rock, or Straight Talker.

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Is My Friendship One-Sided? A Reflective Quiz

12 calm questions about reciprocity — who initiates, who adapts, and how it feels afterward.

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Should I End This Friendship? A Reflective Quiz

14 calm questions on respect, repair attempts, energy, values, and shared history — no verdict, just clarity.

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Cousin Calculator

Second cousin once removed — finally, correctly.

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Wedding Anniversary Calculator

Which anniversary is next — and what is it called?

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Social Battery Test

How fast do you empty — and what fills you back up?

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Conflict Style Quiz

Push, fold, or leave the room — what do you do under pressure?

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Apology Language Quiz

Why some apologies never quite land for you.

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Emotional Intelligence Test

Four branches — which of yours is carrying the rest?

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Communication Style Quiz

Passive, assertive, aggressive — or sideways?

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People Pleaser Test

Not saying it, or not knowing it?

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Trust Issues Quiz

Watching, withholding — or both?

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Am I a Good Listener?

Four skills — which one carries you?

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Personal Values Test

Thirty values, five survive.

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Time Zone Overlap Calculator

When are you both awake?

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How Long Does It Take to Make a Friend?

50, 90, 200 hours — where are you?

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Time Left With Your Kids

Eighteen years sounds infinite. Eighteen summers does not.

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Gift Budget Calculator

Split it before you shop.

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Thank You Note Generator

Thank someone without sounding like a template.

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Congratulations Message Generator

Congratulate the person, not the milestone.

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Enneagram Test

Nine types, honestly framed.

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Age Gap Calculator

Half plus seven — and what the rule misses.

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Get Well Soon Message Generator

No false cheer, one concrete offer.

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Farewell Message Generator

Not the same message as everyone else.

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Wedding Wishes Generator

Card, message, and a toast you can say without notes.

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Healthy Boundaries Quiz

Naming and holding are two different skills.

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Am I the Toxic Friend?

The toxic-friendship check, pointed the other way.

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Christmas Message Generator

Not the one forty people get.

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New Year Message Generator

The best reconnection pretext in the calendar.

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Valentine's Message Generator

The right dose, not the biggest words.

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Mother's Day Message Generator

Including when the relationship is complicated.

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Emotional Maturity Test

Not the red flags — the ordinary Tuesday

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Emotionally Immature Parent Test

Well provided for, and on your own

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Four Types of Immature Parents

Emotional, driven, passive, rejecting

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Internalizer or Externalizer?

Where you go when something hurts

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Maturity Awareness Planner

A goal that can actually be delivered

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Networking Event Follow-up Strategy Planner

Turn an event contact list into a concrete cadence and an editable message.

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True Self / Role-Self Map

Two columns, nothing scored

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