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Tools for better relationships.

Science-backed helpers for friendship, social capacity, and genuine connection — all running locally in your browser.

Tier 1

Flagship tools.

Relationship Question Router

Find the right next step in 60 seconds: check-in, repair, boundary, reassurance, pause, or hard conversation.

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Dunbar Calculator

Your personal limit for friendships.

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Relationship Safety Check

Check whether a conversation tool fits or whether safety, support, and distance need to come first.

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Birthday Reminder Calendar

Turn your birthday list into a .ics calendar — set it once, forget nothing.

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Mental Load Mapper

Make invisible work visible and translate resentment into ownership, standards, and a weekly check-in.

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Relationship Check-In Builder

Build a calm 10, 20, or 45 minute check-in agenda for a partner, friend, or family member.

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Hard Conversation Planner

Plan the opening line, sequence, questions, boundary, and timeout for a hard conversation.

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Repair Script Builder

Build a calm repair script after sharp words, withdrawal, broken promises, or damaged trust.

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Boundary Script Builder

Turn a boundary into your own behavior, not control, threat, or endless debate.

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Stay-or-Go Decision Map

Sort safety, effort, evidence, values, and next steps without deciding from fear or hope alone.

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Tier 2

Free tools.

Friendship Check-Up

A 12-question reflection that surfaces which of your friendships are quietly cooling — without judgement.

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Reconnect Message Generator

A message script that doesn't sound forced — pick the situation, pick the tone, get three usable opening lines.

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Aron's 36 Questions

Arthur Aron's classic 36-question intimacy-building protocol, guided through one question at a time — for couples, new friendships, family reconnection.

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Relationship Health Quiz

A 15-question diagnostic across 5 dimensions of relationship health — diversity, depth, reciprocity, recency, intentionality.

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Personal CRM TCO Calculator

Calculate your real 3-year cost across Clay, Monica, Dex, Cloze, folk, and Endearist Pro Lifetime — see the number that doesn't fit on the marketing page.

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Contact Priorities Matrix

A 2×2 grid (Important × Energy-Giving) for placing your 15 closest people — the matrix that argues with the "obligation" instinct.

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Friendship Languages Quiz

Adapted from Chapman's 5 Love Languages — for friendships. Discover whether you express care through quality time, words, gifts, acts of service, or physical presence.

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Birthday Message Generator

Three custom birthday message variants — pick the relationship, pick the tone, get something better than "Happy Birthday 🎉🎉🎉".

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Apology Message Generator

A research-backed apology — name the harm, take ownership, ask for repair, no excuses. Three variants generated from your situation.

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Friendship Time Budget Calculator

How much time do your friendships actually get?

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Long-Distance Friendship Plan

A 12-month plan for one long-distance friendship — exportable as .ics.

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Holiday Card List Manager

Build your holiday card list once — export Avery 5160 labels, a printable address list, or a mail-merge CSV.

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Contact Deduplicator

Paste a vCard, CSV, or Google Takeout export — find duplicates, merge them, download clean contacts. Entirely in your browser.

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Color Personality Test

12 questions, your dominant color — and the translation across all four color models (Jung, True Colors, Hartman, Birkman).

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16-Type Personality Test

32 questions, your four-letter type — and the translation into True Colors, Insights, and Hartman.

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Type A/B Personality Test

12 questions, your place on the A↔B spectrum — plus where Type C and D fit.

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Big Five Personality Test

20 questions (Mini-IPIP), five dimensions — Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness, Neuroticism.

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DISC Personality Test

12 questions, your DISC style (D/I/S/C) — and the translation into the 4-color wheel.

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How Often to Text a Friend Calculator

How often should you actually text each friend? Find your cadence.

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Friendship Anniversary Calculator

How long have you been friends?

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How Good of a Friend Am I? Quiz

15 questions across 5 dimensions — find out how you really show up as a friend.

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Is My Friendship Toxic? A Reflective Quiz

15 calm questions to reflect on a friendship — no verdict, just an honest self-check.

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Attachment Style Test

Secure, anxious, avoidant — or both?

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Time Left With Parents Calculator

One number that changes everything.

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Sympathy Message Helper

The right words when words are hard.

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Best Friend Paragraph Generator

A paragraph for your best friend — heartfelt, funny, or short — ready in seconds.

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What Kind of Friend Am I? Quiz

15 questions across 4 dimensions — find your friend type: Initiator, Deep Diver, Celebrator, Rock, or Straight Talker.

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Is My Friendship One-Sided? A Reflective Quiz

12 calm questions about reciprocity — who initiates, who adapts, and how it feels afterward.

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Should I End This Friendship? A Reflective Quiz

14 calm questions on respect, repair attempts, energy, values, and shared history — no verdict, just clarity.

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