Short
Hey [Name], Happy new year. From the outside [year] looked like a good one for you — I hope it felt that way too.
Short is entirely fine here. A short message with a name in it beats a long one without.
New Year week is the one time you can write to someone after three years of silence and have it be unremarkable.
Three drafts. The third is the interesting one: New Year week lets you write to someone you have not spoken to in years without it being strange — the best pretext in the calendar, almost never used for that.
Replace the brackets with something specific. If you are reconnecting, name an actual date — otherwise it stays an intention.
Short
Hey [Name], Happy new year. From the outside [year] looked like a good one for you — I hope it felt that way too.
Short is entirely fine here. A short message with a name in it beats a long one without.
Personal
Hey [Name], Happy new year. From the outside [year] looked like a good one for you — I hope it felt that way too. Here's to a good one.
"Health, happiness and success in the new year" is the default line and it fails on anyone who just had a year that took something from them — it reads as an instruction to do better.
To reconnect
Hey [Name], Happy new year. From the outside [year] looked like a good one for you — I hope it felt that way too. We see each other far too little for two people who are supposedly close. I would rather put something in the diary in January than say "we should catch up" again. Here's to a good one.
This is the message worth sending. New Year week is the one time you can write to someone you have not spoken to in three years without it being strange — the best pretext in the calendar, and almost nobody spends it that way. Propose a specific date or the intention evaporates by February.
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"We should stay in touch more" is the most broken resolution there is — not from indifference, but because nobody remembers. Endearist does the remembering, locally on your device.
Join the waitlist →The turn of the year is the second moment in the calendar when a message to someone you've lost touch with costs nothing socially. The templates below are sorted by who you're writing to — with a group for exactly that case.
The square brackets are deliberate: you fill in [Name] and [Detail] yourself. That one filled-in part is the whole difference between a message and a mail-merge.
For the wider circle. One detail instead of a stock phrase is all it takes to stop the message looking forwarded.
Happy New Year, [Name]. Here's to a year that asks less of you than the last one did.
Happy New Year, [Name]. Thank you for [detail] — it was one of the better parts of [year].
All the best for [year], [Name]. I hope it turns out to be a year with more sleep in it.
Happy New Year, [Name]. Let's actually do [detail] this year instead of talking about it again.
Happy New Year, [Name]. Wishing you more of what was good for you last year and less of the rest.
Here's to [year], [Name]. May it be unremarkable and healthy — that's underrated.
Happy New Year, [Name]. And thank you for being there for [detail] back in [month].
Happy New Year, [Name]. Looking forward to a year where we see each other more than we did in [year].
New Year invites big statements. These stay concrete anyway — one named moment from the year carries further than any resolution.
Happy New Year, [Name]. If I had to reduce [year] to one thing I'm grateful for, it would be you.
Happy New Year, [Name]. This year I learned you were right about [detail]. I wanted to say that out loud.
Here's to [year], [Name]. I hope you give yourself the thing you grant everyone else without thinking.
Happy New Year, [Name]. You carried [year] through [detail], and I don't think anyone thanked you for it. So: thank you.
Happy New Year, [Name]. My wish for you isn't a new you — it's a year where the current one has to fight less.
Happy New Year, [Name]. [Year] was the year [detail] happened. I'm glad I was there for it.
Happy New Year, [Name]. I hope [year] asks you less often to look fine when you aren't.
Happy New Year, [Name]. Let's start [year] with [detail] — I'll book it, you just name the day.
Resolutions are the easiest joke available, because everyone knows how they end. Save it for the people whose tone already runs that way.
Happy New Year, [Name]. My resolution for [year]: more realistic resolutions.
Happy New Year, [Name]. Here's to a year where we both pretend we have [detail] under control.
Happy New Year, [Name]. May your year turn out better than your New Year's Eve currently looks.
Happy New Year, [Name]. Statistically we make it to 17 January. I believe in us anyway.
Here's to [year], [Name]. May your hangover be short and your fridge full.
Happy New Year, [Name]. This year I'll reply faster. That's not a commitment, it's a statement of intent.
Happy New Year, [Name]. I survived [year] without learning [detail]. Planning to repeat that.
All the best, [Name]. Here's to a year with fewer meetings that could have been an email.
A New Year note with no specific work in it is advertising. Name what you worked on together and it becomes a message.
A good new year to you, [Name]. Thank you for [detail] — that was the part of [year] that genuinely worked.
All the best for [year], [Name]. I'm looking forward to carrying [detail] on with you.
A good start to the year, [Name]. If [detail] is coming up in January, I'm back from [date].
A good [year] to you, [Name] — and thank you for staying straight with us on [detail] when it got uncomfortable.
All the best for [year], [Name]. Here's to a working relationship that stays as undramatic as it has been.
A good new year, [Name]. [Year] was visibly a lot for your team — I hope January is quieter.
Happy New Year, [Name]. Thank you for your patience over [detail]. That one was on us and you took it well.
All the best for [year], [Name]. I'll be in touch in the second week of January about [detail] — nobody benefits from earlier.
"Here's to a better year!" reads, to someone still in the middle of it, like an instruction to be finished already. Acknowledging that it was hard is the entire trick.
[Name], [year] asked far too much of you. I'm not wishing you a great year — I'm wishing you a lighter one.
Happy New Year, [Name]. You don't have to have liked [year] to have got through it. Both things are allowed at once.
[Name], I'm thinking of you at the turn of the year. If New Year's Eve isn't a celebration this time, that's completely fine.
All the best for [year], [Name]. I'm hoping for a year with less explaining and less organising in it for you.
[Name], I know [detail] overshadowed everything this year. I'm still here in [year], not just in January.
Happy New Year, [Name]. No resolution talk from me. Just: I saw how much you were carrying.
[Name], my only wish for you in [year] is that more people help without being asked. I'll start — tell me what you need.
Happy New Year, [Name]. If January is hard: 3 January is a perfectly normal day to call someone. I'll pick up.
What this occasion is actually good for. No "sorry I never write" — that hands the other person your guilt. Get specific and propose a time, or it dies at "we should catch up sometime".
Hey [Name], Happy New Year. We haven't spoken in ages and I can't think of a reason it should stay that way. How are you?
Happy New Year, [Name]. I was thinking about [detail] and realised it's been [number] years. Any time for a call in January?
Happy New Year, [Name]. No occasion, no ask — I just wanted to know how your year was.
Hi [Name], all the best for [year]. Would you be up for actually seeing each other this year? [Month] works well for me.
[Name], Happy New Year. I'm bad at keeping in touch — it never said anything about how much I like you.
Happy New Year, [Name]. If you want to start [year] with a coffee: I'm around from [date] and I'd like that.
Hey [Name], all the best for [year]. I saw [detail] and thought of you. Tell me what you're up to.
Happy New Year, [Name]. I write exactly once a year — but I write. I hope you're doing well.
Most of the year, messaging someone you have not spoken to since 2023 requires a reason. Without one it reads as odd, or as the opening move of a favour request, so the message does not get sent and another year goes by.
New Year removes that requirement entirely. For about ten days, "happy new year" is a complete and sufficient reason to appear in anyone's inbox — no explanation, no apology, no awkwardness owed in either direction. It is the single most permissive week in the social calendar.
And almost nobody spends it that way. The messages go to the people already texted weekly, where they add nothing, while the genuinely lapsed friendships get skipped for a fourth year running. That is what the reconnect draft here is for.
"Health, happiness and success in the new year" is the default line, and it works fine for anyone who had an ordinary year. For someone who spent the year ill, unemployed, divorcing, or grieving, it reads as an instruction: do better next time. Nobody means it that way and it lands that way regardless.
The honest version acknowledges the year they actually had. "That was a rough one — I hope the next is kinder about it" costs nothing and does not ask the person to perform optimism they do not have. After a bereavement, drop the celebration entirely; the turn of the year tends to make an absence sharper, not softer.
"We should catch up this year" is the most-broken sentence in the genre. It is not insincere — it simply contains no mechanism. Nobody is responsible for it, so nobody acts on it, and by February it has evaporated.
A specific proposal converts at a completely different rate: "Are you around the second week of January?" can be answered yes or no. That is the whole difference between an intention and a plan, and it costs one extra sentence.
The resolution to stay in touch is among the most-broken there is, and not from indifference — nobody forgets people on purpose, they just have no system for remembering. That is exactly what Endearist does, locally on your device.
Related: the Christmas message generator covers the other end of the same fortnight, the reconnect message helper handles lapsed contact outside the season, and how often to text friends works out the cadence that keeps this from happening again.
This drafts a New Year message that says something rather than just marking the date. Worth knowing how this works, because most tools in this category work differently: the wording is assembled from templates we wrote, running entirely in your browser. There is no AI model and no server call, so nothing you type is sent anywhere, logged, or used for training. The trade-off is honest — you get a solid draft rather than something that reads as if it knew the person. Edit it before you send it; the details you add are what make it land.