Warmth, not pipeline
Warmth tracking: scope and availability are not confirmed. Status: not decided yet.
Personal CRM · Relationship library
Keep the people who matter close.
Endearist is an unreleased personal CRM in development. This website already offers relationship advice, free browser tools and conversation questions.
Endearist is not publicly available yet. The launch list is a notification signup, not app access or a purchase. Platforms and capabilities have separate release approvals.
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Product preview
What is proposed — and what remains open.
Capabilities and platforms have separate approvals. This preview is not a public product test.
Cadence per person
System reminders: not publicly available yet. Status: planned for v1.
AI with your key
AI with your own key: not publicly available yet. Status: planned for v1.
Relationship journal
Local-first vault, fully offline: not publicly available yet. Status: planned for v1.
Household access: still open
Family sharing: scope and availability are not confirmed. Status: not decided yet.
Reminder design
System reminders: not publicly available yet. Status: planned for v1.
Relationship advice library
If you have a relationship question, start here.
Evidence-informed advice, paths, tools, and questions work together: check safety and context, choose the right conversation, then keep the relationship warm.
Find the next step
A router for check-in, repair, boundary, reassurance, pause, or hard conversation.
Route my question
Check safety
A safety-first check when fear, control, isolation, or threats are part of the situation.
Start check
Sort a decision
Stay, repair, set a boundary, or leave: read safety, effort, and evidence more clearly.
Start path
Sort fairness
Turn invisible work, money, household tasks, and family logistics into real ownership.
Start path
Choose a path
Sequenced routes for maintenance, communication, conflict, dating, and long-term love.
Browse paths
Repair trust
A focused path for small breaks, shutdown, reassurance, and new evidence.
Start playbook
Build a check-in
A calm agenda for a partner, friend, or family member in less than a minute.
Open tool
Plan a hard conversation
Opening line, sequence, questions, boundary, and pause for charged topics.
Build plan
Find deeper questions
Question sets for partners, family, friendships, and reconnection.
Browse questions
Free tools · no signup
Quick answers about your relationships.
A concrete answer in 60 seconds — all in your browser, no signup.
Relationship Question Router
Find the right next step in 60 seconds: check-in, repair, boundary, reassurance, pause, or hard conversation.
Open tool
Dunbar Calculator
An editorial planning estimate of friendship circles.
Open tool
Relationship Safety Check
Check whether a conversation tool fits or whether safety, support, and distance need to come first.
Open tool
Birthday Reminder Calendar
Check your birthday list and download an .ics file.
Open tool
Friendship Check-Up
A 12-question reflection that surfaces which of your friendships are quietly cooling — without judgement.
Open tool
Ideas · From the blog
Relationship advice with substance.
Research, practice, safety boundaries, and concrete next steps — for real relationships, not generic tips.
communication
What to write in a birthday card for a coworker
Birthday-card messages for coworkers, managers and new colleagues. Original examples for team cards, remote coworkers and belated wishes, without awkward jokes.
Friendship
How to end a friendship with clarity and care
Should you talk, take space, or end a friendship? A practical guide to choosing the next step and finding words for a conversation or message.
Relationships
Relationship tracker apps: compare milestones, memories and data controls
Compare five relationship tracker apps by day counters, milestones, shared memories, partner sync, pricing and data controls.