Why start here
Relationship advice gets weaker when every problem is treated like the same conversation. Maintenance needs a check-in. Hurt needs repair. Repeated patterns need structure. Fear needs safety before scripts. This router turns that decision into a practical first step.
For the full model, read how to know what conversation your relationship needs. If you already know you need a charged talk, go straight to the hard conversation planner.
How to use the result
Treat the recommendation as a starting point, not a verdict. If the first result says pause, pause before using the deeper tool. If it sends you to repair, lead with impact before explanation. If it sends you to a check-in, keep the conversation small enough to repeat.