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Questions for your friend
8 hand-curated question banks for the topics most worth covering with your friend. About 30 questions per set, ordered from warm-up to vulnerable.
A few questions from these sets
- Memories Is there a moment our friendship could have ended but didn't?
- The future Is there a plan you've made that you haven't told anyone about?
- Deep questions What's worrying you at a low level that never quite makes it into conversation?
- Fun & icebreakers You're invisible for 24 hours, but everything you do stays done. What's first?
- Hard questions Have I ever said something that hurt you more than I realized?
- Hypotheticals You can know the exact day you'll die or the cause, but only one. Which do you want, and which would you refuse?
- To get to know deeper What's something you've changed your mind about in the last few years?
- To reconnect What's the part of your week you'd defend if everything else got cut?
- Memories
30 Questions to Ask a Friend About Your Memories
30 hand-curated questions to ask your friend about memories — built to skip the small talk and get to the answers that actually matter.
- The future
50 Questions to Ask Your Friend About the Future
50 questions to ask a friend about the future — the quiet plans, the half-formed hopes, and how you both imagine the friendship aging.
- Deep questions
30 Deep Questions to Ask a Friend
30 deep questions for a good friend — for getting past logistics-talk and calendar catch-ups without turning the evening into a therapy session.
- Fun & icebreakers
32 Fun Questions to Ask Your Friends
32 fun questions to ask your friends — dinner-table superlatives, hypotheticals with a hook, and harmless hot takes that still reveal character.
- Hard questions
30 Hard Questions to Ask a Friend, Honestly
30 hand-curated questions to ask your friend about the hard things — built to skip the small talk and get to the answers that actually matter.
- Hypotheticals
30 Hypothetical Questions to Ask a Friend
30 hypothetical questions to ask a friend — what-ifs and would-you-rathers that look like a game and quietly reveal what someone values and fears.
- To get to know deeper
32 Questions to Get to Know a Friend on a Deeper Level
32 questions for turning a friendly acquaintance into a real friend — past the headline facts, escalating gently, with the research borrowed honestly.
- To reconnect
50 Questions to Reconnect With an Old Friend
50 questions for reconnecting with a friend you simply lost touch with — no falling-out, just life. Restart from now instead of auditing the silence.