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Endearist vs Notion
A fair, specific comparison — written so you'd be comfortable if a Notion engineer read it.
Fairness pledge
Notion isn't a personal CRM — it's a flexible database tool that many people press into service as one, usually via a free or paid template. If you already pay for Notion for work and want a relationship tracker without learning a new app, that DIY path is genuinely viable for the first 50-100 contacts. The templates (e.g. "Personal CRM" by various creators) are well-designed and Notion's filter/view system is powerful. The cost is that you become the maintainer: schema drift over time, no native mobile capture surface for relationships specifically, no built-in reminders, no AI-drafted apology or birthday messages, no journal pattern. Endearist is what those templates wish they could be at scale: a purpose-built version of the pattern, with all the relationship-specific tooling (Magic Buttons, voice notes, encrypted sync, life-events) the templates can't build.
Where your data lives
Notion: hosted on Notion's US/AWS servers. Notion has SOC 2 / GDPR compliance but is structurally cloud-only — your DIY personal-CRM database lives in their multi-tenant Postgres. Endearist: your device first; sync optional via your cloud (Google Drive, iCloud, WebDAV) or Endearist Cloud (EU-hosted).
How AI is accessed
Notion AI is a $10/seat/month add-on on top of the Plus plan, processed on Notion's servers through OpenAI/Anthropic. It's general-purpose, not relationship-specific (no "draft an apology", no "weekly reach-out suggestion", no "extract life-events from a screenshot"). Endearist's AI is purpose-built for relationships — opt-in, BYOK on-device, or EU-routed Pro Cloud.
3-year total cost
Notion Plus: $10/seat/month × 12 × 3 = ~€330. Notion Plus + Notion AI: $20/seat/month — ~€660 over 3 years. Endearist Pro Lifetime: €69 once. Endearist Pro Cloud: €4.99-9.99/month. Notion's edge: you might already be paying for it. Endearist's edge: it's actually a personal CRM, not a database that resembles one.
What we don't do
We don't have Notion's open-ended database flexibility — you can't add a "favourite tea" column to every contact in 30 seconds the way you can in Notion. We trade that flexibility for purpose-built relationship features (Magic Buttons, voice notes, family share, life events, pets, debts) that no template can build.
Feature matrix
Side-by-side.
| Feature | Endearist | Notion |
|---|---|---|
| Local-first data storage | Yes — your device is the primary store. | No — cloud-only multi-tenant Postgres. |
| End-to-end encrypted sync | Yes — AES-256-GCM, you hold the key. | No — transport TLS; Notion holds plaintext. |
| Mobile native apps (iOS / Android) | iOS, Android (native Flutter). | iOS, Android — but it's the general Notion app, not a relationship-specific surface. |
| Desktop native apps | macOS, Windows, Linux (native). | macOS, Windows, Linux (Electron) and web. |
| AI features | Opt-in: bring your own key (on-device) or Pro Cloud Light (~250 EU-routed actions/mo) or Pro Cloud (~600 actions/mo + voice). | Notion AI add-on $10/seat/mo; general-purpose, not relationship-aware. |
| Self-host option | Not currently — the desktop app is the local store. | No. |
| Pricing | Free up to 25 contacts. Pro Lifetime €69 once, Pro Cloud Light €4.99/mo, or Pro Cloud €9.99/mo. | Personal Free (limited). Plus $10/seat/mo. AI add-on +$10/seat/mo. |
| Open source code | Source-release pledge on shutdown/acquisition. | No — proprietary. |
| Plain-Markdown export | Yes — readable without any app. | Yes — Notion has a Markdown export. |
| Voice-note transcription | Yes — on Pro Cloud (60 min/mo) or your own key. | No. |
| Family / multi-vault share | Family share on Pro Cloud (2 seats). Multi-vault on the roadmap. | Workspace sharing exists, but it's not built around households. |
| Journal / reflection | Built-in journal + weekly ritual + appreciation prompts. | Yes — you can build one as a database. Not built-in. |
| Relationship depth (how-we-met, pets) | How-we-met, pets, custom pronouns, life events, debts, attachments. | Whatever you build — no defaults. |
| Calendar / messenger integrations | Read-only calendar (Google/Apple/Outlook); manual share-sheet capture for messenger context. | Limited — no native calendar sync for contact records. |
When to pick Notion
When Notion is the better fit.
If you already pay for Notion at work, are comfortable with database schemas, and your relationship tracking needs are modest (~50 people, no AI assist, no native mobile capture), the DIY route is genuinely fine. The good templates from creators like Marie Poulin or August Bradley are well-designed. Pick Notion-as-CRM when you don't want another app, you have time to maintain the schema, and your needs don't include voice notes, AI message drafting, encrypted local-first storage, or family sharing built for households. We do the relationship-specific parts purpose-built so you don't have to.
Switching
Coming from Notion?
Export your Notion database to CSV (Database menu → Export → CSV & Files). Endearist imports the CSV directly via Settings → Import → CSV. Map "Name" to contact name, "Email" / "Phone" to their respective fields, and any custom property to a custom field — Endearist supports arbitrary custom fields per contact. The notes column maps to the contact's notes. Birthday / anniversary date columns map to life events. Allow 5-10 minutes for a clean import of 100-200 contacts.
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