Tools for better relationships.

A 12-question reflection that surfaces which of your friendships are quietly cooling — without judgement.

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A message script that doesn't sound forced — pick the situation, pick the tone, get three usable opening lines.

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Arthur Aron's classic 36-question intimacy-building protocol, guided through one question at a time — for couples, new friendships, family reconnection.

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A 15-question diagnostic across 5 dimensions of relationship health — diversity, depth, reciprocity, recency, intentionality.

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Calculate your real 3-year cost across Clay, Monica, Dex, Cloze, folk, and Endearist Pro Lifetime — see the number that doesn't fit on the marketing page.

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A 2×2 grid (Important × Energy-Giving) for placing your 15 closest people — the matrix that argues with the "obligation" instinct.

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Adapted from Chapman's 5 Love Languages — for friendships. Discover whether you express care through quality time, words, gifts, acts of service, or physical presence.

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Three custom birthday message variants — pick the relationship, pick the tone, get something better than "Happy Birthday 🎉🎉🎉".

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A research-backed apology — name the harm, take ownership, ask for repair, no excuses. Three variants generated from your situation.

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How much time do your friendships actually get?

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A 12-month plan for one long-distance friendship — exportable as .ics.

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Build your holiday card list once — export Avery 5160 labels, a printable address list, or a mail-merge CSV.

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Paste a vCard, CSV, or Google Takeout export — find duplicates, merge them, download clean contacts. Entirely in your browser.

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12 questions, your dominant color — and the translation across all four color models (Jung, True Colors, Hartman, Birkman).

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32 questions, your four-letter type — and the translation into True Colors, Insights, and Hartman.

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12 questions, your place on the A↔B spectrum — plus where Type C and D fit.

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20 questions (Mini-IPIP), five dimensions — Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness, Neuroticism.

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12 questions, your DISC style (D/I/S/C) — and the translation into the 4-color wheel.

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How often should you actually text each friend? Find your cadence.

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How long have you been friends?

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15 questions across 5 dimensions — find out how you really show up as a friend.

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15 calm questions to reflect on a friendship — no verdict, just an honest self-check.

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